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"Music is my therapy."
🎵 Prisoner, Money & Pain, Happy Pills
Afang & poundo, pepper soup rice, fisherman soup... you cook with soul.
CEO of Ash & Roses — beauty, travel, style.
CEO genre, late nights, and British films for vocabulary
"Sharp, always acting too smart for my age."
Insomnia, ulcer, but still pushing. You're stronger than you know.
Every picture tells a story, and yours is beautiful.
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My Velvetheart,
I know we’re not the kind of people who text every day. We both disappear, life gets hard, and the distance between Delta and Lagos makes everything feel heavier. But even in the silence, you’ve never left my mind.
You shared your music, your pain, your dreams (Ash & Roses 🌹, your album, your fashion). You called me “best friend” and “my love” in the same breath. And I know I’ve been slow to meet you not because I don’t care, but because I want to show up when I’m truly ready. I hope you understand.
For now, this little code is my gift. No money, no grand gesture, just everything I’ve learned about you, turned into pixels and light. Happy Birthday, Brenda. May this year bring you peace, sold‑out shows, and a heart that feels lighter.
— Brendan (your favorite distant friend ❤️)